It’s summer and it’s bloody hot in the UK. I feel this weather is never-ending; it’s nice but we are not used to it. Summer styling always makes me a bit anxious. What the hell do you wear when you have about 50 jumpers in your wardrobe and 2 pairs of shorts from like 5 years ago. It’s an issue. I realised that I have a lot of oversized clothing and that kinda struck a chord with me. I am more self-conscious then I let on. I got quite depressed with my wardrobe. I was wearing the same old shorts that I pull out each summer with oversized t-shirts. I wanted to explore my style and get out of this rut that seemed to be getting me down. I made a promise to myself to wear things that I don’t usually wear and ditch the shorts and t-shirt look for a bit.
Being confident in what you wear is so important. It changes your mood and makes you see your body in a positive light. I don’t mind my body but I’m still human and sometimes I do look in the mirror and pick myself apart and compare myself. Never compare yourself because what I have learnt is that it doesn’t matter what shape or size you are. We can all look sexy and feel good. We just have to believe in ourselves and get out our comfort zone with clothing. I went on ‘Missguided’ and found some pieces that I would never normally give a second thought about. So I put them in my basket with a lump in my throat and pressed buy! I was so surprised when they arrived. They look really good and something I have never tried before. My confidence flew up and I now have some new outfits that I feel confident and me in.
Lace Cami Strap Body- £25
I absolutely love this body! It’s super comfy and fits like a dream. Lace is really in at the moment. You can dress this up or down and I like that. It’s super girly and flirty without being too risky. Great with a pair of jeans or a skirt. I would have never picked this up as I didn’t think it would suit my figure and I thought I wasn’t cool enough. If you have these thoughts then you need to get rid! Because it’s a load of rubbish. If you like it then give it a go, you may surprise yourself.
Faux Leather Mini Skirt- £18
I have always loved mini leather skirts. I just never thought I could pull one off. This skirt fits so well. It’s a perfect length as that’s what worried me. Some skirts can come up as an awkward length and not look flattering. This, however, sits perfectly and is super comfy. It’s more of an evening piece for me. So I would probably only wear this to go to clubs and bars in. I like that as it feels special. Evening outfits can be hard to put together because you wanna look good but not too overdressed. Pair this with the lace body and you have a super sexy, flawless outfit without looking like you tried too hard.
Cowl Neck Strappy Body- £20
This is so flattering and instantly dresses up a look. Completely effortless. I love it. It’s a nice material. This can be dressed up or down. I love pairing it with jeans and going for a more chill vibe. Perfect for summer as it’s a cami style. Something quite different for me and I like that.
Only a few small changes to my wardrobe but already it has made a massive difference to how I think and feel about clothes. I would advise you do this. Ditch the oversized and go looking for things outside your comfort zone. Missguided have some lovely things in at the minute! I never explored my style and kept it quite simple but this has made me what to buy more things I wouldn’t normally. You are beautiful the way you are. Don’t let society tell you that you can’t wear certain things because it’s not for your body type. I have just proved that if you just bite the bullet and go for it. You can surprise yourself. Wear what you like, who cares what others think. If it makes you happy then go for it.
Hope you’re all enjoying this lovely weather. Don’t get intimidated with summer styling just wear what makes you feel good. Give this a like if you enjoyed it and want to see similar content. Tag me in your outfit pictures on Instagram. I would love to see your out of comfort zone outfits. Girlbossing it up! Tag me @alicewoodwardx
Love and be yourself.
Lots of love and happiness
Alice xo