Life, Happiness and Friendship Chat

Life is unexpected and things can really all change in a year. The people you meet, the experiences you go through shape you and grow you into the person you are today. It’s been a very weird time emotionally; I have been feeling all the feels and it does overwhelm you. However, the people who are important to you only care and love you and that’s what you have to remember.

I have entered a strange part in my life where I’m constantly overwhelmed and slightly stressed about the future. It’s hard when you have responsibilities and things you need to be doing but just can’t figure it all out. Take some time for yourself and get advice from people you respect. I think it’s important to realise when you need help or just some space. Recharge your batteries and then get back to normal.

Happiness has always been my number one priority. What if we over think happiness. We want more but actually we have plenty we just can’t see it. Living in the moment is something I’m trying to do more of. Not over thinking just doing. Enjoying the little things because they are the big things. Not thinking will this last forever but just enjoying it for what it is.

We live in such a fast-paced world where we are constantly being shown more. Being shown a reality that just isn’t real. Tv, adverts, social media. We all get wrapped up in the fake that we forget the real.

I believe everything happens for a reason. People come into your lives at the right time. Good people is all I want in my life. The people in my life right now are the most amazing. I got very lucky and believe me when I say that in the end, you end up with who you’re meant to be with. I have been through a lot of shitty friends and experiences but all have taught me something about myself. Tough times happen to make you stronger. Just live your life and people will pop in when you least expect it. As you get older you don’t want the drama, gossip and fake. You want nice, genuine, caring people. The energy you put out into the world will slowly come back to you.

Don’t be too hard on yourself and if you’re not happy with something then walk away. No one is worth so much that it affects your mental health. Be you because you are enough and for the right people you will be amazing.

Lots of love and happiness

Alice xo