We are all human and sometimes we don’t always do the right things all the time. Sometimes we are wrong, sometimes we mess up, sometimes we are the toxic ones but that doesn’t make us bad people. It makes us human!
People come in and out of our lives and some take advantage. Sometimes you have to be strong and cut them out. They use you and are only there when they get bored. Sad but honest truth.
I care way too much about others and their opinions. I love to make people happy but when they drain you that’s when it’s not worth your time. I saw an old special friend earlier this month and it completely threw me off. It was a surprise and a shock. I hadn’t seen her in so long. It brings back all the memories and feelings. I still care; but you just act like strangers when once you knew everything about each other. It was so hard and painful. I had a panic attack in a bar bathroom because it got the better of me. I was worrying about her instead of taking care of me and having a good time. Sometimes people aren’t meant to stay in your life. They were there for a chapter and you had a great time but they aren’t meant to be in your future. You have to let go at some point and focus on who is in your life now.
We neglect the people we really care about for these temporary people. It’s one of the most sad and self destructive things you can do to yourself.
Life can get boring and repetitive but the ones who love and care for you will never switch up and will always be there. Don’t waste time with the ones who are there on their own conditions.
Don’t go in search of things because you feel empty and sad. It will only leave you more empty and sad! Work on things and talk to people!
Stop being so selfish and think about other people’s feelings before you do things. Don’t do things out of temporary happiness because it is temporary and will wear off.
Stop putting things off, your life is happening now! Don’t waste it.
Love and appreciate all the people who care about you day to day and say it to them more. Always speak your feelings.
Don’t take things for granted, you could lose something/someone special!
Be happy but don’t waste time proving it to others.
Lots of love and happiness
Alice xo
Alice Woodward 