Mistakes

Sometimes you are the bad guy in the story and that can hurt when you never meant to be. But you don’t get to decide how people portray you or get to decide how you made them feel. What you mustn’t take seriously is the opinion of everyone else when they have only heard one part to a story. A story can be told completely differently and have different intentions. It hurts but if people want to be closed minded then let them. Half the time it has nothing to do with you and says a lot more about them.

Life is unexpected. It can be fine one minute and not the next. It’s how you deal with that. It keeps you on your toes. As long as you have good people around you that know the truth and know the real you then that’s all that matters. They aren’t going to be thrown a story and completely believe that was your intentions. As far as I’m concerned those people who know you and love you are all that matters. Why would you want to impress someone who doesn’t believe you or even try to understand you.

Life will give you an opportunity to hurt people but this is a test. If you do it then you don’t just hurt that person but you hurt yourself. Karma is real and you may want to teach that person a lesson but life will do that. If you get involved you join the line for karma to take place. It’s like a dominos effect.

Sometimes people don’t want to hear sorry. In fact they don’t want to hear anything they just want to show you who’s boss and get even. When this happens, don’t react. Take a step back. You have admitted you were wrong and apologised. What happens next shows the maturity of the other person. Just keep your distance. You don’t need to prove anything.

We all make mistakes, in fact life is about making mistakes. You learn and you live. I don’t think anyone has ever gone through life without failure and mistakes. They aren’t negative words they are words to learn by. I believe when you do go through a tough time and make a mistake, this is a massive growth for yourself. We all make mistakes and to call someone out on theirs isn’t nice. Make sure you and your life are perfect before you target others. If you can see someone is trying to correct their mistakes why make it harder for them. Why be spiteful when you know that it’s human nature to do so. None of us were made perfect. We have our flaws but as long as we are trying, I don’t think we should be penalised for it.

Sometimes that story has a secret meaning and actually you aren’t the main character. Sometimes the bad guys are the good guys, they are just misunderstood.

A few quotes that I like and want to end on…

Tell my mistakes to me not others, because these are to be corrected by me not them.

When the nice guy loses his patience the devil shivers.

I will remember and recover, not forgive and forget.

Lots of love and happiness

Alice xo