This is going to be a bit of a different blog post. I was reading through my notes and I have lots of rambles and thoughts going back years. Some of them are really interesting to me looking back at what made me feel this way. A person, a post, a conversation. I find it interesting how our thoughts change and evolve. I do want to share them with you because they are valid points and interesting subjects.
I feel that we live in a world that disses/mocks self improvement and discovery. Which is really strange in my opinion because surely improving ourselves and trauma can only help everyone and the world.
I get told I look too far a head but maybe everyone doesn’t and that’s the problem. It’s all well living for the moment and for the day and yes that is very true and I agree. But I feel nothing will change if we don’t address the issues from the past. I speak a lot about my future children and people look at me like I’m crazy! But am I really crazy for wanting to create a better world for the future generations, it starts with us. We are the adults of today. I feel I have a responsibility to heal and understand myself and the world a little more. I was brought up as silence keeps the peace but who for. I am far from silent I am secure enough to say what I am and want.
I have had people say to me- “I think you just think too much. I don’t have time to think. Maybe you need to fill your days up more.”
This kinda talk always shows me how unhealed that person is. That is why your life won’t change and you keep feeling the same things because you aren’t addressing it. That’s how generational curses continue with that mentality. I tell you one thing for sure- IT ENDS AT ME!
Opinions are interesting and I love listening to anyone even if I don’t agree it opens up my mind. I think some people are threatened by someone’s thoughts and opinions maybe because they are scared of the truth or they themselves can’t comprehend something due to their level of understanding.
All my life my opinion has sometimes come last. It’s always don’t post that you may offend someone, that’s the wrong information, if you want to support share what I share. This is where I have an issue. I would never go out of my way to tell someone what they should or should not post wether I agree with statement or not. I will no longer have my opinion silenced. I’m no longer tip toeing around people because their feelings or ego will get hurt.
Im all for constructive criticism and hearing someone out. I see a lot of posts from people where I don’t agree but at the end of the day I then think that not everyone has the same heart and if you try and control that it ruins the beauty of life. We need to learn how to have healthy debates and talk about sensitive issues without getting angry. You might change someone’s mind if you put it in a calmer kinder manner.
You are responsible for yourself and your actions that you cause and if someone says you upset them listen and don’t over react because their feelings are valid. Sometimes in life we do things and we never mean to hurt the ones we love but unintentionally we do. I think it’s important to realise your own toxic traits. We are all human we all bleed the same colour- be a little more understanding.
My last thing I want to talk about is how women are being taught and brain washed at the moment. This is not all women!! There was debate going around whether women would rather be alone with a bear or a man in a forest. This blew my mind and I found it such an interesting debate.
Society is at its lowest at the moment. Teaching women they don’t need a man and men are vile is honestly the most outrageous thing to me. We need men. Men do hard jobs. Outside in all conditions and sometimes can be quite dangerous. This whole girl boss culture is out of hand. I’m not saying women can’t be independent and do hard jobs. We work very hard but cancelling men is just ridiculous. Men balance women out and to be honest with you I would hate to live in a world with just women. Women can be so bitchy and love drama. Women nowadays make me feel ashamed to be female. These are women that claim they are feminists but will happily cancel a man for some dumb shit. Work on yourself and let things happen. One thing I have learnt is that don’t look for love. It will creep up on you. Usually the ones cancelling men are the ones begging for men because they can’t get what they want and it’s so sad to see. Please just love yourself and focus on you. I promise you love will happen but it won’t if you force it.
I’m a great believer in the saying ‘let it go, if it comes back to you it’s yours and if it doesn’t it was never meant to be.’ Don’t wait life is too precious to wait- go and be the best version of you and the people that are right for you will always be there.
Lots of love and happiness
Alice xo
Alice Woodward 