Now, let me get this straight before I begin. I’m not ignoring statistics and making out that men are perfect — absolutely not. I have had my fair share of shit and uncomfortable experiences, especially living in a city centre! I’m not going to go into things fully, as I know it can be a… Continue reading Let’s talk about men and male culture…
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Self control is self love
Self-control — the feeling of walking away from something you really want because you know it’s not good for you. Running from the pain is the easy bit. Hiding it with alcohol or other people. But truly sitting with that uncomfortable feeling? Well, it’s torture. However, it’s needed. You can’t run forever. You can’t hide… Continue reading Self control is self love
Thoughts & Feelings for the last four months of the year
Four months of the year left. It goes so quick yet so slow, and you look back and suddenly realise everything has changed. It seems like only yesterday I was wishing in the New Year, with hopes and dreams of what would be. This year has made me grow and learn. I have gained strength… Continue reading Thoughts & Feelings for the last four months of the year
Hello 2026! Never settling and hitting 10,000 views!!
Happy 2026! She says… in July. It’s been a wild one. Then again, it always is, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. Yes, there have been ups and plenty of downs. However, I will never settle for a life I’m not happy with. I will burn it all down if I need to.… Continue reading Hello 2026! Never settling and hitting 10,000 views!!
The Chaos of Life
I’m not afraid of saying I’m lonely. Lonely doesn’t mean you don’t have good people around you. Lonely is a weird emotion that I think likes to be felt in toxic ways in my opinion. I know I have given into loneliness in the most toxic and dangerous ways. Everything connects. It goes back to… Continue reading The Chaos of Life
Feeling your feelings
Showing up for myself is something I have found hard. I’m a massive empath and people pleaser. I’m so focused on everyone else’s pain and healing so they don’t have to feel the pain that I have felt. But I was thinking about it and it’s not heroic it’s tragic because I need to be… Continue reading Feeling your feelings
Becoming an Adult
Once you realise that you are in control. The game changes. I think I have struggled coming to terms with being an adult. I think it can be such an adjustment. Your whole life you are being told what to do, how to do it, living by someone’s rules and beliefs. Then all of a… Continue reading Becoming an Adult
Hibernating/Reflecting
I have really had to learn to step back and let things be and learn how to be still. I found this and still am finding this hard. With a brain that doesn’t let me rest overthinking everything. I have to remind myself what is important and ground myself. Otherwise I fly off into wonderland… Continue reading Hibernating/Reflecting
Rambles and Thoughts
This is going to be a bit of a different blog post. I was reading through my notes and I have lots of rambles and thoughts going back years. Some of them are really interesting to me looking back at what made me feel this way. A person, a post, a conversation. I find it… Continue reading Rambles and Thoughts
What they don’t tell you about healing…
Healing is personal and I think that makes it the most painful; you have to go through it alone. Its uncomfortable. It can get very intense and in that moment when you want to comfort yourself with distractions; try to resist because that’s where the growing takes place. What does healing feel like? Well it’s… Continue reading What they don’t tell you about healing…
