And just like that it comes crashing down… you would of thought I’d of learnt by now. But then we would never have my blog posts about life lessons if there wasn’t a lesson to learn.
Don’t get attached to anything, just give things time. You never know what will happen and you don’t want to end up disappointed.
Life deals you cards. I’m still trying to figure out what mine mean.
Pain is not forever and it can feel very uncomfortable but hang in there. Hard I know when your heart feels like it’s been punched and your whole body is mourning something you don’t understand.
I give so much to others. I have come to the realisation that it’s because that’s what I need from others.. my craving. I’m too much for people and that’s because I’m empty and I’m trying to fill a hole in them that actually is my own.
I watch far too many cringey films where they fall in love and happily ever after. That’s all I want. But maybe it’s yourself. Maybe you are your own happily ever after.
I am a massive people pleaser. I want everyone to feel comfortable and happy. It makes me happy. But you have to realise when you are being used. Sometimes it’s only when it’s convenient for them.
As sad as it is to say, the only reason some people are in your life is because they are bored and sad with there own. They know you will always be there. Then when they find someone else.. you are non-existent. Then you are left to pick your broken pieces up.
I want you to be happy for you. Try to find happiness within yourself and distance yourself from all these temporary negative people. You are whole and it is a privilege to know you. So start believing that. It will change your life.
So take care of yourself… lots of love and happiness
Alice
Alice Woodward 