Now, let me get this straight before I begin. I’m not ignoring statistics and making out that men are perfect — absolutely not. I have had my fair share of shit and uncomfortable experiences, especially living in a city centre! I’m not going to go into things fully, as I know it can be a… Continue reading Let’s talk about men and male culture…
Tag: the ordinary
Self control is self love
Self-control — the feeling of walking away from something you really want because you know it’s not good for you. Running from the pain is the easy bit. Hiding it with alcohol or other people. But truly sitting with that uncomfortable feeling? Well, it’s torture. However, it’s needed. You can’t run forever. You can’t hide… Continue reading Self control is self love
Thoughts & Feelings for the last four months of the year
Four months of the year left. It goes so quick yet so slow, and you look back and suddenly realise everything has changed. It seems like only yesterday I was wishing in the New Year, with hopes and dreams of what would be. This year has made me grow and learn. I have gained strength… Continue reading Thoughts & Feelings for the last four months of the year
Hello 2026! Never settling and hitting 10,000 views!!
Happy 2026! She says… in July. It’s been a wild one. Then again, it always is, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. Yes, there have been ups and plenty of downs. However, I will never settle for a life I’m not happy with. I will burn it all down if I need to.… Continue reading Hello 2026! Never settling and hitting 10,000 views!!
The Chaos of Life
I’m not afraid of saying I’m lonely. Lonely doesn’t mean you don’t have good people around you. Lonely is a weird emotion that I think likes to be felt in toxic ways in my opinion. I know I have given into loneliness in the most toxic and dangerous ways. Everything connects. It goes back to… Continue reading The Chaos of Life
Feeling your feelings
Showing up for myself is something I have found hard. I’m a massive empath and people pleaser. I’m so focused on everyone else’s pain and healing so they don’t have to feel the pain that I have felt. But I was thinking about it and it’s not heroic it’s tragic because I need to be… Continue reading Feeling your feelings
Kindness and Life Chats
I am a very impulsive person. When I get an idea, I have to get it done straight away. Wether that’s cleaning, buying things I want to sorting out. It’s not a bad thing however, when it creeps into your life and mental health I feel so much pressure. Pressure to get my life sorted.… Continue reading Kindness and Life Chats
Looking After Your Mental Health
Taking a step back is not a bad thing. You are not failing, you are not prolonging your growth or career, you are simply taking care of yourself. It’s so important to pause and take a breath. We are all so guilty of putting so much unnecessary pressure on ourselves and it really damages our… Continue reading Looking After Your Mental Health
Life Lessons, People and Taking Care of Yourself
And just like that it comes crashing down... you would of thought I’d of learnt by now. But then we would never have my blog posts about life lessons if there wasn’t a lesson to learn. Don’t get attached to anything, just give things time. You never know what will happen and you don’t want… Continue reading Life Lessons, People and Taking Care of Yourself
September Favourites
It's been a crazy old month but it's got better by the end. To me, this month was all about appreciating the little things. What makes it all worth it and gets me through are these absolute lifesavers that I think everyone needs. Yankee Candle- Champaca Blossom I feel it's finally acceptable to light a… Continue reading September Favourites
